bahala na si batman

my bf and i had a talked about his plans for our future. and kahit alam ko na kung ano yung gusto nya, masakit pa rin pala pag narinig mo na yun mismo.

he plans to get married at the age of 30, hello?! by that time im already 31, di kaya malutong na matres ko nun? ;((

dunno kung anu talaga yung dahilan kung bakit ganung age nya pa gustong mag asawa. basta ang sabi nya lang at that age palang daw siya magiging ready.

haaaaaay di koalam kung kaya ko pa siyang hintayin nun, di ko alam kung worth it ba na maghintay ako ng another 4 years, di ko alam kung ano pa yung pwedeng mangyari sa 4 years.

he kept on saying na destiny kami, and he knows how much i love him, kaya siguro ganun siya kaconfident, dahil alam nyang maghihintay ako..

but i want to have a family and a baby in a year or 2...

bahala na si batman...

the so-called "affair"

matagal ko ng gustong magblog about this issue.. well marami kasi kong alam na married na pero may third party involve pa rin.

and for a week napanood ko yung koreanovela na "My Husband's Woman" and bigla akong napag isip...

well, i have guy friends who has and have involve in a realtionship even theyre married, and when i asked them why? eto yung reasons na mga binigay nila..

yung wife daw nila eh di sila masyadong inaasikaso

kesyo mataba na raw at losyang yung wife nila

kesyo di daw magaling sa bed

nagger ang babae

they simply fall out of love

those are just some of the reasons na dinadahilan nila..

i also have GIRL friends who also involve in that so-called affair.. and here are the reasons why they got involved...

wala ng panahon ang kanilang hubby para lambingin sila

masyadong mahigpit at seloso ang hubby

financially di napoprovide ng hubby nila ang kanilang pangangailangan

dahil nagbago na raw ang hubby nila, di na sweet katulad nung nanliligaw/ or mag bf/gf pa sila

and again they just simply fall out of love..

di ko lang maintindihan yung mga reasons na yan, para kasing ang babaw kung yan ang ireresean out nyo sa pagkakaroon ng affair.

nung nagpakasal kayo you promise to love each other, in sickness and in health and till death do us part.